Emotionally Focused Psychiatrists in Ocean County, NJ

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New Way Psychiatry LLC
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner
Verified Verified
Toms River, NJ 08757  (Online Only)
Immediate Same Day Appointments are available 7 days a week for Residents of NJ and NY and your psychiatric evaluation, weight management, suboxone treatment and more and will be performed by a Doctorate level psychiatric provider and prescriber who is specializing and successfully treating clients from age 12. New Way Psychiatry LLC offers a new approach to your mental health world and well-being by offering Integrative psychiatric evaluations and medications management as well as a UNIQUE and personalized treatment for residents of NJ and NY. No waiting list! Appointments are available daily and late evenings, weekends.
Immediate Same Day Appointments are available 7 days a week for Residents of NJ and NY and your psychiatric evaluation, weight management, suboxone treatment and more and will be performed by a Doctorate level psychiatric provider and prescriber who is specializing and successfully treating clients from age 12. New Way Psychiatry LLC offers a new approach to your mental health world and well-being by offering Integrative psychiatric evaluations and medications management as well as a UNIQUE and personalized treatment for residents of NJ and NY. No waiting list! Appointments are available daily and late evenings, weekends.
(848) 294-1561 View (848) 294-1561
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Modern Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, MD, LCSW, LMFT, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Toms River, NJ 08755
Now Accepting New Patients- - -Most Insurance Plans Accepted- - - We are a team of psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, therapists, case managers and primary care physicians offering convenient and comprehensive mental health treatment across multiple states, both in-person and virtually. We specialize in treating a multitude of conditions therefore are able to match you with a provider best suited to meet your specific needs. Let us help you achieve a higher quality of life and overall sense of wellbeing. Contact us today!
Now Accepting New Patients- - -Most Insurance Plans Accepted- - - We are a team of psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, therapists, case managers and primary care physicians offering convenient and comprehensive mental health treatment across multiple states, both in-person and virtually. We specialize in treating a multitude of conditions therefore are able to match you with a provider best suited to meet your specific needs. Let us help you achieve a higher quality of life and overall sense of wellbeing. Contact us today!
(908) 638-1374 View (908) 638-1374
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Bright Futures Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, DO
Verified Verified
Seaside Park, NJ 08752
Dr. Jennifer Dismukes, DO combines exceptional knowledge and skills with compassionate therapeutic services. She works hard to understand you and how your experiences, biology, family history and personality traits contribute to your current suffering and symptoms Dr. Dismukes is double Board-Certified Adult and Pediatric medical physician of Psychiatry, a Doctor-of-Medicine, specifically Osteopathic Medicine, which is the study of the entire body as a system. As such, She is an expert in the treatment of medical, psychiatric, psychological, and developmental problems.
Dr. Jennifer Dismukes, DO combines exceptional knowledge and skills with compassionate therapeutic services. She works hard to understand you and how your experiences, biology, family history and personality traits contribute to your current suffering and symptoms Dr. Dismukes is double Board-Certified Adult and Pediatric medical physician of Psychiatry, a Doctor-of-Medicine, specifically Osteopathic Medicine, which is the study of the entire body as a system. As such, She is an expert in the treatment of medical, psychiatric, psychological, and developmental problems.
(609) 722-7046 View (609) 722-7046
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Dr. Victor G Grosu
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Brick, NJ 08723  (Online Only)
Quick appointments are available. I am board certified in Child & Adolescent psychiatry and provide medication management and psychotherapy services to children, adolescents and young adults, ages 8-22, with mental health conditions, including but not limited to ADHD, Depression, OCD, Panic, Mood Disorder, Stress, and Anxiety. I have been practicing psychiatry for over 17 years and was recognized by the NJ Top Doctor magazine as a Top Psychiatrist in 2019. I provide help using a comprehensive approach to treatment. I have frequent sessions with patients which allows me to monitor them closely to minimize side effects.
Quick appointments are available. I am board certified in Child & Adolescent psychiatry and provide medication management and psychotherapy services to children, adolescents and young adults, ages 8-22, with mental health conditions, including but not limited to ADHD, Depression, OCD, Panic, Mood Disorder, Stress, and Anxiety. I have been practicing psychiatry for over 17 years and was recognized by the NJ Top Doctor magazine as a Top Psychiatrist in 2019. I provide help using a comprehensive approach to treatment. I have frequent sessions with patients which allows me to monitor them closely to minimize side effects.
(848) 600-5264 View (848) 600-5264
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Dr. Luiza Asahme-Triolo
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PsyD, PMHNP-B
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Brick, NJ 08723
Are you struggling with symptoms of depression, anxiety, or going through a challenging time? Have you trialed numerous medications without any success, and continue to have symptoms? I am Dr. Asahme-Triolo (PsyD, PMHNP-BC) the founder and CEO of Oasis Better Health, and Southern Oasis Better Health, working with clients, both children/adolescents and adults, to manage symptoms through psychopharmacology. In addition, we have therapists available in the practice, able to see child, adolescent and adult clients, for individual therapy, utilizing various therapeutic modalities, for the best fit.
Are you struggling with symptoms of depression, anxiety, or going through a challenging time? Have you trialed numerous medications without any success, and continue to have symptoms? I am Dr. Asahme-Triolo (PsyD, PMHNP-BC) the founder and CEO of Oasis Better Health, and Southern Oasis Better Health, working with clients, both children/adolescents and adults, to manage symptoms through psychopharmacology. In addition, we have therapists available in the practice, able to see child, adolescent and adult clients, for individual therapy, utilizing various therapeutic modalities, for the best fit.
(732) 561-5605 View (732) 561-5605

Online Psychiatrists

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Jillian Saad
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Marlton, NJ 08053  (Online Only)
Dr. Jillian Saad is a board-certified adult psychiatrist who specializes in patient-centered care. She has been practicing for over 8 years in private practice and academic medicine. Dr. Saad focuses on medication management in 30-minute follow-up visits in conjunction with supportive and emotionally focused therapy. She takes a patientcentered approach that acknowledges all the psychosocial aspects of each individual to ensure they receive the most effective treatment possible.
Dr. Jillian Saad is a board-certified adult psychiatrist who specializes in patient-centered care. She has been practicing for over 8 years in private practice and academic medicine. Dr. Saad focuses on medication management in 30-minute follow-up visits in conjunction with supportive and emotionally focused therapy. She takes a patientcentered approach that acknowledges all the psychosocial aspects of each individual to ensure they receive the most effective treatment possible.
(856) 372-5904 View (856) 372-5904
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Catherine M Kim
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Licensed in New Jersey and New York. Like a tree, our roots are our foundation. They can lead us in many directions and keep us anchored in times of difficulty. Over the course of life, we are faced with storms that may affect our roots, which can then affect our lives tremendously. We desire to give individuals a chance to firmly implant their roots where they were meant to be, leading to healing and lasting change. We want to remind you that you are already en route on your path to wellness. Whether you are looking for healing, restoration, or self-empowerment, we are happy to be part of this journey with you.
Licensed in New Jersey and New York. Like a tree, our roots are our foundation. They can lead us in many directions and keep us anchored in times of difficulty. Over the course of life, we are faced with storms that may affect our roots, which can then affect our lives tremendously. We desire to give individuals a chance to firmly implant their roots where they were meant to be, leading to healing and lasting change. We want to remind you that you are already en route on your path to wellness. Whether you are looking for healing, restoration, or self-empowerment, we are happy to be part of this journey with you.
(201) 582-4585 View (201) 582-4585
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K Mental Wellness LLC /
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, DNP, APN, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Hamilton, NJ 08691  (Online Only)
Start your journey to mental wellness today at K Mental Wellness if you are struggling with challenging mental health symptoms like depression, anxiety, mood swings & much more. Dr. Harriet Asamoah, a doctorate prepared Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner at K Mental Wellness is ready to assist you to reach your mental wellness potential using evidence-based treatment approaches and patient centered care. A HIPPA compliant telehealth platform is used to provide mental health services to clients in the comfort of their homes to increase access to care. Telehealth require access to a smartphone, tablet or computer.
Start your journey to mental wellness today at K Mental Wellness if you are struggling with challenging mental health symptoms like depression, anxiety, mood swings & much more. Dr. Harriet Asamoah, a doctorate prepared Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner at K Mental Wellness is ready to assist you to reach your mental wellness potential using evidence-based treatment approaches and patient centered care. A HIPPA compliant telehealth platform is used to provide mental health services to clients in the comfort of their homes to increase access to care. Telehealth require access to a smartphone, tablet or computer.
(609) 766-0853 View (609) 766-0853
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Shannon Bucciarelli (adolescent/teen specialist)
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, MSN, PMHNP, B-C
Verified Verified
Westfield, NJ 07090
I am a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with years of experience treating teen/adolescents and their families. I focus on treating the whole individual with psychotherapy and medication when appropriate, and after careful assessment. The driving force behind my practice is to create a nurturing environment where kids can grow into healthy adults with learned coping skills and a better understanding of their own identity.
I am a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with years of experience treating teen/adolescents and their families. I focus on treating the whole individual with psychotherapy and medication when appropriate, and after careful assessment. The driving force behind my practice is to create a nurturing environment where kids can grow into healthy adults with learned coping skills and a better understanding of their own identity.
(908) 774-8813 View (908) 774-8813
Ruth MacKenzie (adolescent/teen specialist)
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, APN
Verified Verified
Voorhees, NJ 08043
I am a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with years of experience treating teen/adolescents and their families. I focus on treating the whole individual with psychotherapy and medication when appropriate, and after careful assessment. The driving force behind my practice is to create a nurturing environment where kids can grow into healthy adults with learned coping skills and a better understanding of their own identity.
I am a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with years of experience treating teen/adolescents and their families. I focus on treating the whole individual with psychotherapy and medication when appropriate, and after careful assessment. The driving force behind my practice is to create a nurturing environment where kids can grow into healthy adults with learned coping skills and a better understanding of their own identity.
(856) 565-3673 View (856) 565-3673
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Devon B. Young
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, MSN, PMHNP, AGNP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Marlton, NJ 08053
Hi! I am a dual board certified Psychiatric Mental Health and Adult- Gerontology Nurse Practitioner with a passion for helping people. I am qualified to treat patients across the life span for a variety of Mental Health conditions. I also specialize in internal medicine for adults and geriatrics. I have 10 years of experience as a nurse practitioner and 15 years of experience in nursing. I have worked in a variety of medical settings from inpatient to outpatient. Regardless of the personal challenge, my goal is to provide evidence-based care using the mind-body connection to assist clients in achieving their wellness goals.
Hi! I am a dual board certified Psychiatric Mental Health and Adult- Gerontology Nurse Practitioner with a passion for helping people. I am qualified to treat patients across the life span for a variety of Mental Health conditions. I also specialize in internal medicine for adults and geriatrics. I have 10 years of experience as a nurse practitioner and 15 years of experience in nursing. I have worked in a variety of medical settings from inpatient to outpatient. Regardless of the personal challenge, my goal is to provide evidence-based care using the mind-body connection to assist clients in achieving their wellness goals.
(856) 865-5952 View (856) 865-5952
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Svetlana Aynbinder
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP, BC, MSN, BSN, RN
Verified Verified
I love working and encouraging people to be an active participants in their treatment, by offering a holistic approach to their mental health. In today's world, when so many people feel alone, depressed and anxious, I am here to provide a safe and nurturing environment so that you feel seen and heard. I offer support to patients and caregivers, assisting people going through the process of grief. By working together, we establish individual goals and steps to meet them in customized manner.
I love working and encouraging people to be an active participants in their treatment, by offering a holistic approach to their mental health. In today's world, when so many people feel alone, depressed and anxious, I am here to provide a safe and nurturing environment so that you feel seen and heard. I offer support to patients and caregivers, assisting people going through the process of grief. By working together, we establish individual goals and steps to meet them in customized manner.
(640) 201-5972 View (640) 201-5972
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Trinity Mental Health Services
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, DNP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Union, NJ 07083  (Online Only)
I am Dr. Angela Anukam, a board certified doctorate prepared Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner (PMHNP) currently licensed to practice in New Jersey. I graduated with a Bachelor's degree of nursing from Felician College in Lodi new Jersey. I earned Master of Nursing (MSN), and Advance Practice Nurse (APN) from Fairleigh Dickenson University in Teaneck New Jersey. I completed my Doctorate degree of Nursing (DNP) from Grand Canyon University Phoenix Arizona.
I am Dr. Angela Anukam, a board certified doctorate prepared Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner (PMHNP) currently licensed to practice in New Jersey. I graduated with a Bachelor's degree of nursing from Felician College in Lodi new Jersey. I earned Master of Nursing (MSN), and Advance Practice Nurse (APN) from Fairleigh Dickenson University in Teaneck New Jersey. I completed my Doctorate degree of Nursing (DNP) from Grand Canyon University Phoenix Arizona.
(862) 420-0372 View (862) 420-0372
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Dr. Bradford Bobrin
Psychiatrist, MD , FASAM , FACLP
Verified Verified
Princeton, NJ 08540
I don't have an ideal client, except that they are open to change. I will see anyone who asks for help, but I expect they are or will be willing to change. I attempt to understand the patient as a whole, from birth to the present, from a medical, psychological, familial, and neurological perspective. I am focused on practical solutions and removing emotional blocks to making progress. I speak directly and am primarily concerned about the relationship with my patients. I am an avid advocate for my patients.
I don't have an ideal client, except that they are open to change. I will see anyone who asks for help, but I expect they are or will be willing to change. I attempt to understand the patient as a whole, from birth to the present, from a medical, psychological, familial, and neurological perspective. I am focused on practical solutions and removing emotional blocks to making progress. I speak directly and am primarily concerned about the relationship with my patients. I am an avid advocate for my patients.
(609) 293-4452 View (609) 293-4452
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Dr. Tony Issac
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ridgewood, NJ 07450
Dr. Issac is an experienced addiction and general psychiatrist with eight years of experience. He has helped many overcome their mental health challenges. Issac evaluates, diagnoses, and treats people based on their medical pathology, nutritional, and hormonal health. People suffering from addictions, or with other mental health challenges, such as anxiety, and depression, can recover with the correct diagnosis and treatment. Combining medications with psychotherapy, Dr. Issac considers various medical factors to treat his patients; he plans comprehensive treatments. His warmth and compassion are welcoming and supportive.
Dr. Issac is an experienced addiction and general psychiatrist with eight years of experience. He has helped many overcome their mental health challenges. Issac evaluates, diagnoses, and treats people based on their medical pathology, nutritional, and hormonal health. People suffering from addictions, or with other mental health challenges, such as anxiety, and depression, can recover with the correct diagnosis and treatment. Combining medications with psychotherapy, Dr. Issac considers various medical factors to treat his patients; he plans comprehensive treatments. His warmth and compassion are welcoming and supportive.
(201) 482-3451 View (201) 482-3451
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Dr. Tony Issac
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Atlantic City, NJ 08401
Dr. Issac is an experienced addiction and general psychiatrist with eight years of experience. He has helped many overcome their mental health challenges. Issac evaluates, diagnoses, and treats people based on their medical pathology, nutritional, and hormonal health. People suffering from addictions, or with other mental health challenges, such as anxiety, and depression, can recover with the correct diagnosis and treatment. Combining medications with psychotherapy, Dr. Issac considers various medical factors to treat his patients; he plans comprehensive treatments. His warmth and compassion are welcoming and supportive.
Dr. Issac is an experienced addiction and general psychiatrist with eight years of experience. He has helped many overcome their mental health challenges. Issac evaluates, diagnoses, and treats people based on their medical pathology, nutritional, and hormonal health. People suffering from addictions, or with other mental health challenges, such as anxiety, and depression, can recover with the correct diagnosis and treatment. Combining medications with psychotherapy, Dr. Issac considers various medical factors to treat his patients; he plans comprehensive treatments. His warmth and compassion are welcoming and supportive.
(609) 795-7719 View (609) 795-7719
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PMC Psychiatric Mental Health
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, DNP, PMHNP, FNP-C, APN
Verified Verified
Elizabeth, NJ 07208
Precious Medical Care (PMC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Clinic based in New Jersey. Our goal is to keep you healthy at all times. Our practice is staffed with highly qualified psychiatric providers with many years of experience helping mental health patients to regain sound health and mind. We provide mental health services to treat different types of diagnoses including; Psychotic disorders, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Crisis Intervention, Anxiety Disorder, Drug Addiction, Comorbidity, Deficit Disorder, and Medication Management in both inpatients and outpatients settings.
Precious Medical Care (PMC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Clinic based in New Jersey. Our goal is to keep you healthy at all times. Our practice is staffed with highly qualified psychiatric providers with many years of experience helping mental health patients to regain sound health and mind. We provide mental health services to treat different types of diagnoses including; Psychotic disorders, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Crisis Intervention, Anxiety Disorder, Drug Addiction, Comorbidity, Deficit Disorder, and Medication Management in both inpatients and outpatients settings.
(908) 840-8719 View (908) 840-8719
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Dr. Allen Masry
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Clementon, NJ 08021
I am Board Certified in Adult Psychiatry and have been practicing since 2005. I completed my residency from Tufts University in Boston, Massachusetts and my Fellowship in Addictions from the Robert Johnson Wood Foundation. In 2014, I was featured in SJ Magazine as one of New Jersey’s top psychiatrists. I have experience working with adults as well as adolescents suffering from both psychiatric diagnosis and substance use disorders and have extensive experience working in both out-patient and in-patient settings.
I am Board Certified in Adult Psychiatry and have been practicing since 2005. I completed my residency from Tufts University in Boston, Massachusetts and my Fellowship in Addictions from the Robert Johnson Wood Foundation. In 2014, I was featured in SJ Magazine as one of New Jersey’s top psychiatrists. I have experience working with adults as well as adolescents suffering from both psychiatric diagnosis and substance use disorders and have extensive experience working in both out-patient and in-patient settings.
(856) 481-7947 View (856) 481-7947
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Dr. Tony Issac
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cherry Hill, NJ 08003
Dr. Issac is an experienced addiction and general psychiatrist with eight years of experience. He has helped many overcome their mental health challenges. Issac evaluates, diagnoses, and treats people based on their medical pathology, nutritional, and hormonal health. People suffering from addictions, or with other mental health challenges, such as anxiety, and depression, can recover with the correct diagnosis and treatment. Combining medications with psychotherapy, Dr. Issac considers various medical factors to treat his patients; he plans comprehensive treatments. His warmth and compassion are welcoming and supportive.
Dr. Issac is an experienced addiction and general psychiatrist with eight years of experience. He has helped many overcome their mental health challenges. Issac evaluates, diagnoses, and treats people based on their medical pathology, nutritional, and hormonal health. People suffering from addictions, or with other mental health challenges, such as anxiety, and depression, can recover with the correct diagnosis and treatment. Combining medications with psychotherapy, Dr. Issac considers various medical factors to treat his patients; he plans comprehensive treatments. His warmth and compassion are welcoming and supportive.
(609) 798-0413 View (609) 798-0413
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Nu Imagery Healthcare, LLC.
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, EdD, DNP, PMHNP, FNP, CDCES
Verified Verified
Haskell, NJ 07420
We believe that medical and psychological problems are intertwined and can be addressed in one session. We provide integrated and balanced healthcare to address primary care issues, especially weight loss & obesity, sleep, and diabetes while addressing psychiatric mental health issues. We help you cope with school/ work stress. We provide psychiatric and prescription treatment of obesity & binge eating with weight loss plans to keep you on track. We deliver psychotherapeutic techniques to help you reduce stress and cope with challenges. Our treatment modality may improve your quality of life and reduce stress from work and school.
We believe that medical and psychological problems are intertwined and can be addressed in one session. We provide integrated and balanced healthcare to address primary care issues, especially weight loss & obesity, sleep, and diabetes while addressing psychiatric mental health issues. We help you cope with school/ work stress. We provide psychiatric and prescription treatment of obesity & binge eating with weight loss plans to keep you on track. We deliver psychotherapeutic techniques to help you reduce stress and cope with challenges. Our treatment modality may improve your quality of life and reduce stress from work and school.
(201) 474-2305 View (201) 474-2305

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Emotionally Focused Psychiatrists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.