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Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT
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Lily Fray

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
1 Endorsed
Lily Fray Therapy, Inc., Santa Monica, CA 90402
Let's Connect (310) 929-9670
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As a sex and relationships therapist, I support individuals and couples in working through communication challenges, discrepancy in desire, betrayal and lack of trust/infidelity, sexual compulsivity, sexual trauma, sexual inexperience, STI/STDs, sex therapy, ENM, sexual dysfunction such as erectile dysfunction and vaginismus, and more. I use a warm and nonjudgmental approach to support clients in releasing shame to get to the root of healing. I believe that all clients have the inner resources and tools with which to navigate life’s challenges and that it is my job to support clients in identifying and strengthening these tools.
We will explore how past and present hurts may be creating road blocks in your path toward healing. I will support you in moving through stuck emotions/trauma (I am EMDR trained) so that you can create space for connection and joy. I provide a collaborative, goal directed, and structured therapeutic space so that my clients can get the most out of therapy.
It is my honor to support clients in deepening their sense of self, in expanding their self-expression, and in developing the life they have always wanted. If you are looking for a safe and supportive space to take another step on your journey toward healing, please reach out for a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation.
Call or Lily Fray now for a free 15 minute consultation - (310) 929-9670

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Lily Fray Therapy, Inc.

Santa Monica, CA 90402

(310) 929-9670

Lily Fray Therapy, Inc.

Palo Alto, CA 94304

Now offering sessions as early as 6am!
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Trauma and PTSD 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Let's Connect (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Lily Fray Therapy, Inc.

Santa Monica, CA 90402

(310) 929-9670

Lily Fray Therapy, Inc.

Palo Alto, CA 94304

Now offering sessions as early as 6am!
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Trauma and PTSD 
I see individuals, couples and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
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I am an out-of-network provider and do not work with insurance companies, but I can provide superbills upon request for reimbursement through your insurance.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT
"
I am an out-of-network provider and do not work with insurance companies, but I can provide superbills upon request for reimbursement through your insurance.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 929-9670
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Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 144266 Lily Fray
  • Degree/Diploma from The Wright Institute Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology
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I am a trauma informed therapist and EMDR trained through EMDRIA.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT
"
I am a trauma informed therapist and EMDR trained through EMDRIA.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 929-9670
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Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Relationship Issues
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Body Positivity
  • Chronic Pain
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Women's Issues
Do these issues align with your needs? or (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT

Endorsement

Darcy Dittrich
Darcy Dittrich
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Lily's wisdom, commitment and passion for helping individuals and couples, particularly with sex and intimacy, are just a few of her strengths. She brings both professionalism and warmth to her work, and I strongly recommend working with her.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Single Mother
Transgender Allied

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Single Mother
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Expressive Arts
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Humanistic
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Play Therapy
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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I use a blend of therapies based on various aspects of a client's life, such as their specific goals, personality, and personal history, to provide a comprehensive approach to treatment based on the client's individual needs. My approach is often rooted in Client Centered Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, and trauma informed care/EMDR.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT
"
I use a blend of therapies based on various aspects of a client's life, such as their specific goals, personality, and personal history, to provide a comprehensive approach to treatment based on the client's individual needs. My approach is often rooted in Client Centered Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, and trauma informed care/EMDR.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT

Location

Primary Location

Lily Fray Therapy, Inc.

Santa Monica, CA 90402

(310) 929-9670

Additional Location

Lily Fray Therapy, Inc.

Palo Alto, CA 94304

(310) 929-9670
"
Now offering sessions as early as 6am!
Call for a free consultation now - (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT
"
Now offering sessions as early as 6am!
Call for a free consultation now - (310) 929-9670
Photo of Lily Fray, MA, EMDR, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Lily Fray
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EMDR, LMFT